Why be Responsible?

As we continue with our principles that help create family harmony, the next one is RESPONSIBILITY. Our action word for that is "I'll Help!" I'm sure that whenever you try to teach your children about being "responsible," whether to help out with something or clean their room, you are met with arguments, groans, and the rolled eyes.

There are many reasons why every member of a family, even very young children, should help out. For some older children, understanding these reasons can often spur them on to helping more. Ask your kids why they think being responsible is important. Here are just a few of our reasons.

We show love for our family by our considerate actions. Is that being responsible? Of course it is. We all benefit from living in the house so we should all do our part to make things flow smoothly. We contribute to family harmony by doing our part. We prepare ourselves for adult life and having families of our own. Many kids aren't thinking about this now, but it is the training that they need to have a successful family later on.

Being responsible earns us the respect of our family. When parents see that we are mature about accepting responsibility in the home, they respond by giving us more privileges and freedom. Freedom and privileges can be earned by demonstrating responsibility. What teenager wouldn't want that?

Social skills training always includes ways to be responsible. Here are a few ideas to help your kids understand how you want them to help. Do chores that need to be done without being asked over and over. Do what you have been asked to do with a pleasant attitude. Finish what you start. Do your best, whatever you're asked to do. Have a careful attitude toward your home and the things that your family provides for you. Care for your younger siblings and pets. Have an attitude of gratefulness and respect toward your family.